Mom's Motivation

I'm SITS'ing Pretty Today!

2012-01-25T06:25:00.000-05:00

Ohhhh Yeah! I am so excited! Today I'm being featured on SITS! Just in case if you aren't sure what SITS is exactly let me brief it for you. "The Secret To Success is Support" is the motto and the SITS Girls live by it. Women showing other women the support to succeed with their blogging, food and lifestyle deals and more. With over 10,000 SITS Girls and continuing to grow.

So now that you understand that SITS is the bomb in the blogging world for us girls here's a little bit about me. I am what you would call a multi-tasking Mom with OCD and ADHD. I have three children, four if you count my elderly grandmother who lives with us. I work outside of the home and I am an Independent JAFRA Beauty Consultant. I enjoy being constantly on the go, it's who I am, being bored is not an option.

I started blogging in 2009 with hopes to find a place to express myself. I love sharing motivation hoping to help others. I want my readers to know that someone out there understands them and there is a rainbow at the end of the storm.

I would love to get to know everyone so let me know you were here! Don't be a stranger take a look around at my past posts.

Thank you again to SITS! I truly appreciate all you do. Have a blessed day everyone.

Walking in Style Now!

2012-01-21T15:55:00.000-05:00

For the next six weeks my middle child will be stuck in what they call Series Casts. It's the same casting they would use if you broke a bone but in her case it is to help her stretch out her tendons to reduce toe walking. They will change the position of her ankles every two weeks and recast three times.

This will probably be the longest six weeks of her life being stuck in these casts. Thankfully now a days there is color selection, her first pick was pink and white (which glows in the dark!). She's adapting to walking and getting around in them quickly. When doing so she needs to wear those moon shoe looking boots which are quite well...Blah!

So I decided it would be fun to spice them up a little bit! I went to my local craft store and voila! This is what she's sporting now!

Her confidence boosted automatically! I used iron ons and fabric paint. I hope this helps speed up her six weeks. She's wearing them more and trying to get around more than before. Girls need a little BAM sometimes!

So next time your child (hope you won't have to but..) is stuck in cast boots spice them up! Have fun with it, the casts aren't they only thing you can personalize.

Keep The Dream Alive

2012-01-16T07:17:00.003-05:00

Keep

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s

Dream Alive!

Conquering Celulite

2012-01-11T15:32:00.002-05:00

It's a New Year and like most people you're probably making a list of goals to accomplish this year. On that list may be to get more active, excercise, tone up, eat healthier and so on. That's awesome! We all should do this!

As a woman, I know I can be self-conscious about my body. It seems that no matter how much I exercise cellulite is a problem! Sounds familiar huh!? I swear the devil is responsible for cellulite, it's just evil!

All kidding aside, cellulite can be embarrassing especially to a woman. We want our skin soft and attractive, not lumpy. As we age our skin thins out and our muscle tone decreases allowing the fat to appear closer to the skin's surface. Weight is not really the main culprit believe it or not, of course it assists in the problem but even if you're right at your ideal weight that darn cellulite still will appear.

JAFRA Cosmetics International has a great solution to help with this problem, it's Intensive Cellulite Concentrate. It helps to minimize the cellulite it contains advanced G-protein technology with caffeine and active botanicals to help reduce the appearance of fluid retention and visibly firm and tone the skin.

JAFRA's Cellulite Intensive Concentrate Get out there and get your exercise and healthy eating on! Feel amazing about yourself! Try JAFRA's Cellulite Intensive Concentrate and see results! Start today and by the time Spring comes around you will be ready to show those legs without a second thought!

For more information please visit my JAFRA site today!

Michelle Lee

Independent JAFRA Beauty Consultant

Overcome Your Doubts and Believe It To Achieve It!

2011-04-30T08:22:00.000-04:00

There are times in our lives where we feel like everything, everyone, everywhere is going against us and our lives are upside down. No matter how hard you try to think positive and working hard to overcome your doubts...you still come out with the same results...nothing going right.

I know exactly how you feel, I've been there several times in life, felt like just throwing my hands up and saying ohhhh forget it! But something inside me continued to believe that it will get better just keep going! So even though I wanted to crawl into a corner and throw a blanket over my head I instead brushed myself off and went right back out into battle. You have to find that belief in yourself and in God to keep going. Giving up is too easy and that of which is worth it is worth fighting for! Your Life, Your Children, Your Faith, Your Strength!

Even though times are rough and the odds seem against you...Never Give Up! No matter what negativity surrounds you, no matter how bad it seems, no matter if the bills keep coming but the money isn't, no matter if you have a disability....STOP putting the negatives above the positives! Your capability is based on your beliefs, believe it and achieve it!

I know, it is all easier said then done. Like I said I have been there, homeless, hungry, abused, broken and more but I am not going to allow nothing to get in the way of me being the best Mother or person I can be. This is why I feel that I need to speak up and virtually hug you and tell you that it will get better. Be strong for you and be strong for your children! If you feel like you can't do it on your own, that's okay, there is help out there. Go to your local church, synagogue, contact me and I will help you locate the help in your area if you don't know where to start.

God Bless!

What Are You Waiting For?

2011-04-21T20:05:00.002-04:00

You've been wanting to start a business, home business and/or you need to bring in an extra income to make ends meet...well, What are you waiting for? The "Aha Moment"? For the perfect opportunity? Whatever is holding you back from moving forward push it aside and take control! The longer you put off doing what you want to do the less time you will have to do it. Makes sense right? Well then, I ask you again, What are you waiting for?

If your dream is to make the best tasting cupcakes in the world, then bake away and get yourself out there to bring in business! What's that? You can't bake...okay, so maybe you like to sew, paint, photograph, decorate, blog or even babysit "Just Do It"! Be creative if money is the issue to get started, try raising funds with a yard sale or another way but do not allow excuses to stop you from living your dream!

I am working on mine! I may not be there completely but I am on my way and will jump over any obstacle to get there! I really enjoy blogging and especially love to inspire others to get motivated and get moving. I also am an Independent Beauty Consultant with JAFRA and Love It! I have always did my best to take care of my skin, especially because I experience times of eczema and keratosis, soft healthy skin is important to me and being able to share awesome products with others is important to me.

So now, no more waiting for the right time because it is now! Do what you love and be happy with the results inside and out! If you would like more information on blogging or JAFRA International Cosmetics contact me.

CBS The Talk Interviews a JAFRA Consultant!

2011-04-16T17:37:00.000-04:00

I love an inspiring story! This motivates me to even go further with JAFRA!

Visit me, your Independent JAFRA Beauty Consultant today for more information on how to start your JAFRA home business for only $60.00, that includes all the supplies you need for your first party, expert training and tons of support!

Hush Your Mouth!

2011-04-12T07:26:00.000-04:00

Today I am going to bring up something that has been around as long as time....GOSSIP!!! I am now in my mid-thirties and can not believe that even at this age I am surrounded by people who just do not know how to mind their business nor their mouths. And no, I do not work at a high school!

I am not one too participate in the BS time passer. When approached by someone who can't wait to tell me "all about Betty" I simply brush them off and say I'd rather not be involved. It's sad really, grown adults (women especially are guilty) feel a need to belong in certain "groups" so they will open their ears wide then turn to their neighbors with their mouths even wider! I've always felt that those who gossip to you will gossip about you...in a heart beat! Of course, either way even if you don't participate they will have something to say but then we call them "Haters"! People love to hate on those they want to be like, so you're doing something right!

So here's my challenge to you, the next time "Sue" comes over to your house or cubicle and starts telling you some BS about "Jenny" and "Jack" tell her you "DON'T WANT TO BE INVOLVED"! If she respects your wishes then cool if not then I'd scratch her off your "friend list". It has to stop somewhere, all gossip does is hurt people. So what if it's true, does it really affect you? No? Then hush and mind your business!

And if you are like me and keep your own business yours, I admire your strength! Pass that on!

JAFRA Kitty!

2011-04-08T15:29:00.003-04:00

Even our kitty, Asia, loves Jafra! She couldn't wait to get in the box!

My New Homebusiness!

2011-04-07T16:33:00.003-04:00

Recently I have expressed to you that I was in search of a homebusiness opportunity that will fit me perfectly. It had to be something that I felt passionate about, I wanted to be one of the first to bring the business to my area (not the same ol' direct business). I put a lot of thought into it, searched many sites and did so much research but I kept coming back to one particular company. I was impressed and motivated with it and then I did it....I signed up for JAFRA International Cosmetics!

JAFRA is not your like most of the other direct selling cosmetic companies. The regularly priced start up cost is $60.00 and when I received my start up kit I was so impressed with the materials and then I tried the products and OH MY GOODNESS I knew I was headed in the right direction! Products fit for a Queen!

I am so excited and am loving my fresh new start. The programs/prizes for the consultants are realistic based, there's no outlandish goals to reach. There is no inventory needed, no pressure, you work at your pace. In due time I plan on being a Manager and join in on the program AccelerateYourSuccess and drive a beautiful Mercedes Benz. One step at a time though.

I just had to share with you and if you are looking to supplement your income or need a flexible homebusiness without all the stress and pressure then I highly reccommend looking into JAFRA. Or if you are looking for beautiful skin products that will have your skin feeling like silk come on over and visit me to create your own skin care profile! I am off to work on my calendar to set up a few parties!

God bless

Turning a Negative into a Positive!

2011-03-31T20:49:00.001-04:00

Something I want all women to understand...you are as strong as you want to be. Life is going to bring you obstacles and at times there will be disasters but how you deal with it all can make a big difference on the outcome. I am sure you've heard this before, it's not anything new. Well, why are there so many people in the world that still dwells on the unnecessary? Yup, because they choose to!

Trust me, my life has had more than it's share of disasters and giant obstacles, I am sure that more are to come, but when I allow myself to be swallowed by it is when I will drown in self pitty. Of course some have it harder than others, it's part of life...sorry.

I can't promise anyone that putting a smile on your face will overcome all bad days. I can promise you that everything happens for a reason, even the bad. Look at the poor Adam Walsh family for example, what can be more devastating than his story to a parent? It may have took time but John Walsh, his father, now helps others by putting criminals at large on America's Most Wanted and has had great success with helping authorities find these people. There is also now Code Adam when a child is missing in public places.

So my point is, I am telling you it's okay to get angry, grieve and cry but learning to flip the negative into a positive is a must.

Keep your heads up it will get better.

Time to get a Spring in ya step again!

2011-03-12T17:25:00.001-05:00

It's that time of the year again to change our clocks up one hour tonight before bed. I really like daylight sticking around one more hour each night but gosh twice a year this whole flip flop thing throws me off.

Why can't we be like Hawaii, Puerto Rico or other's who's tick tock stays the same? I'll tell you why, good ol' Benjamin Franklin back in 1784 was already trying to get us to save on energy...hence the saying "Daylight Savings". But did you know that his idea did not begin taking place until around one hundred years after during the first World War!

Anyhow, I'm not here to get into all the "technical stuff". I just know that come tomorrow morning I'm going to feel like I'm behind on everything and before I know it Monday will be quickly approaching and it'll be time to clock in at work again. Okay, okay I'm going to stop complaining and get me and the family ready to Spring Ahead! There's something to get excited about SPRING!!! It's been a wild winter ride here in Ohio so I am beyond ready to see some blooming sprouts pop up.

I hope everyone has an easy going transistion. Try going to bed one hour earlier.....nahhhhh, it's Saturday baby who am I kidding I am gonna live it up and go to bed at 11:00 p.m. or atleast try to, lmao!

Putting What I Know To Work!!!

2011-03-11T15:12:00.000-05:00

For years now I have been in search of a steady way to work from home to bring in extra money then eventually go at it full time. I like many other moms have tried Avon and other Direct Selling but just seem to not be able to find what's right for me. I am very busy and hardly have time to sit in a hot bath nevermind drag party items from house to house.

So I have been thinking and thinking hard about it all. I currently work part time at a local hospital and although I truly enjoy it, trying to keep up with everything at home and work is exhausting me....literally. I have always been a crafty person, loving to tinker with paints, hot glue, making baskets, jewelry, party favors etc and have been told many times I should market my crafts. Well I think I am going to take the advice and get myself busy and put what I know to work! I am a "Multi-Crafter" so Lord only knows what I may come up with!

I am also considering selling advertising space on my blog in the near future! But one step at a time!

I look forward to sharing my journey with you all.

God bless!

Sweet Kitty Is Looking For A Good Home

2010-04-19T21:48:00.001-04:00

Ever since I was a kid I have always tried to save any animal I came accross that seemed to be in need. I dreamt of becomming a veternarian and working with all types of animals. It breaks my heart that so many are homeless, neglected and abused. I started donating to the ASPCA a while back ago and admire everything they do. It's a wonderful organization that helps protect animals from puppy mills, being homeless and animal cruelty, just to name some of what they do.

Recently a precious kitty has been coming around our house, she is so sweet and friendly. I have posted a few ads in local papers in the Found Pets section but have not had any luck with an owner contacting us yet. I have also contacted every shelter in my area but they are way over capacity with cats at the moment. I have two cats of my own and have more than a lot going on in my home as is but I am trying to find her a good home. I am setting up an appointment to assure she is up to date on her shots and fixed as well. I couldn't see why anyone would ever put such a sweet cat out. She is awesome with the kids and so loving.

If anyone is interested in more information about this beautiful kitty and lives within the Akron-Canton, Ohio area please email me at michielee74@yahoo.com.

I am....

2010-04-14T07:39:00.000-04:00

I am..........
by Michelle Lee

I am an interior decorator
I am a boo boo inspector
I am the professional chef
I am the sibling rivlary ref
I am the household bookkeeper
I am the "I can't find it" seeker
I am a head nurse
I am the one to carry it all in my purse
I am a monster slayer
I am the constant prayer
I am the know it all.com
but best of all I am a MOM!

Dear IRS...

2010-04-09T10:24:00.000-04:00

Hooray! Thank goodnes Tax Season is finally nearing the end!

Thank You, Jesus

2010-04-04T10:53:00.001-04:00

From my family to yours, Happy Easter! May you all have a blessful and inspirational day.

A Prayer for Easter Morning

0 Lord Jesus Christ, who upon this day did conquer death and rise from the dead, and who are alive for ever more, help us never to forget your Risen Presence forever with us.

Help us to remember,

That you are with us in every time of perplexity to guide and to direct;
That you are with us in every time of sorrow to comfort and console;
That you are with us in every time of temptation to strengthen and to inspire;
That you are with us in every time of loneliness to cheer and befriend;
That you are with us even in death to bring us to the glory of your side.

Make us to be certain that there is nothing in time or in eternity which can separate us from you,so that in your presence we may meet life with gallantry and death without fear.

You turn our darkness into light, in your light we shall see light.
Lord in your mercy, hear our prayer.
Christ the Lord is risen today!

Adapted from ThisIsChurch.com
Source: Godweb.org

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2010-03-28T14:21:00.001-04:00

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Theta Mom Thursday!

2010-03-25T17:20:00.000-04:00

It's been a long time since I have been able to participate in Theta Mom Thursday. It's not too much that I haven't had time to myself...I drive myself to work and back = me time, right? According to what some people may think it is! Crazy huh!

Well, I have been feeling extra crafty lately because of Spring finally showing up around these cold parts. There are Easter Baskets and chocolates to be made so I went to my favorite store, Pat Catans Craft Store. I am ahead of schedule this year folks, usually I'm rushing at last minute to make these baskets but not this year, uh uh. I got everything I need to overfill my spoiled children's baskets as usual and with a week plus to spare.

Ahhh, but what did I do for me you ask. I bought strands of glass beads to and clear stretchable string. Guess what I'm gonna make? I'm planning on making a sun catcher curtain of beads for my kitchen window so when the morning sun shines through my window rainbows dance on my walls! I will take a picture and post on it as soon as it's complete.

This has been a great Theta Mom Thursday!

Amazing Blogging Friends

2010-03-23T19:40:00.000-04:00

I am so excited! I have 98 fantastic following readers! Two more and I will be in the tripple digits crew, awwwww yeah! That's right I'm doing a Happy Dance!

I started blogging in October 2008 not thinking much of it, it was just something I was trying out. Now I love blogging and don't think I'll ever stop (God willing). I love reading other blogs, commenting and networking with amazing blogging friends!

I hope to continue growing my reading audience. I promise I will always have something to say...sure it may be a post with much sarcasism but it's also filled with love!

Thank you to all who stop by and take the time to read my craziness, I appreciate you!

Kids Gone Wild at McDonalds

2010-03-20T17:23:00.000-04:00

Remember when we were kids and our parents would bring us to the McDonald's playground? Times have changed.

I thought it would be fun to take the kids to McDonald's grab some artery clogging grub and let the little ones burn off some energy. It's worse than Chuck E' Cheeses' in that place...kids gone wild! Parents are sitting there on the wifi, on the phone or reading the paper while their little rug rats are destroying the place and bullying other children. Food was everywhere, trash was overflowing, not a clean table in sight and shoes/socks thrown anywhere....and get this, we were in an "Upper Scale Neighborhood"...Hello money doesn't buy class!

I refuse to allow some little snot nose brat to shove my child in this small narrow tubing (where they think no one can see). I'll fight a kid and their Momma heck bring on the Daddy too.

Anyhow, I called my two girls to come so we could leave the chaos and of course they cried because they wanted to stay. I had to come up with a quick pacifier to hush them, hmmmmm ice cream, ok sounds good. Don't you know this damn woman on my way out had the nerve to roll her eyes at me, LORD GIVE ME STRENGTH! Please keep me from slapping this chick on my way out the door. Well, needless to say I'm typing this post and not in jail so I found the strength to continue on my way BUT I did roll my eyes right back at her snotty ass. All while promising my kids some ice cream.

If you know your kids are bad and bullies watch them damn it. Don't count on a fast food restaurant to baby sit your children while they tear up the place and ruin it for every one else.

Ahhhh, I feel better now but I am not going back for a looooooooong time!

Shhhh, We're Huntin' Leprechauns!

2010-03-17T07:39:00.000-04:00

That's right, the kids and I are on the hunt for those tricky little fellas. We're gonna get us a pot o' gold darn it! My five year old daughter has developed a trap that is sure to work. She has it baited with all shiny things the wee men are sure to fall for.

Ha, Ha, Ha! Little scoundrels we will find ye and get ye pot o' gold. As soon as we find a rainbow it's on.

I wish you all a Happy and Safe St. Patricks Day!

Dragging Ass

2010-03-14T11:03:00.000-04:00

Ain't this time change stuff a bunch of crap? Hecks yeah it is! It's almost 11:00 a.m. and I'm still dragging ass. I'm all for Spring and beautiful weather but the whole transition of loosing an hour is exhausting.

Like I wasn't running low on time before. Some genius way back in the day decided hey wouldn't it be fun to switch the clocks back and forth twice a year. It screws with peoples minds trying to adjust to the changes. As soon as you get comfotable with it (Fall) you have to change it again, then it's dark at 4:00 p.m. Madness pure madness! LOL

Alright, I will stop complaining and get off the computer now. Besides I have to play time catch up now fix all these dang clocks around the house so we all won't show up to work and school late tomorrow! Shhh, I know I should've done that last night but then I wouldn't have to guess what time it is now. Just keeping life interesting around here!

Have a great Sunday!

A Mommy's Day

2010-03-12T22:01:00.000-05:00

It's morning and off we go

Brush your teeth, wash your face

Packing up running out the door

This is our weekday race

Three o'clock and we're back

My day has really just begun

Hand the kids a quick snack

Cook, clean, run, run, run

Homework is all done

Splish splash in the tub

Read stories, Mom begs not the same one

Sleepy eyes getting a rub

Sweet dreams my little baby

Here let mommy tuck you in

Tomorrow is another long day

I can't wait to do it all again.

When Your Strength Becomes Your Weakness

2010-02-26T17:22:00.000-05:00

As long as I can remember I have always been a strong willed woman. With a can do attitude, striving to always do my best. Sure, it's something to admire in people who are that way but when you throw in stubborness into the mix it turns into a weakness.

Seriously, I have changed my own oil, tires, painted houses, helped fixed roofs, moved large furniture items I should've just left alone until help came along, shoveled driveways after a blizzard like snowfall...you get the point. I had to learn the hard way that I needed to know how to do these things because there may not be someone to count on at all times. Life wasn't always easy for me I had to count on ME.

Today our area was hit with some bad snow and school was canceled. I could hardly see my van it was covered in so much snow and the driveway had atleast 5 inches of snow with more piling up just daring some poor soul to come out and try to shovel. This is where I should have told my 13 year old son who is 5'8" to put on some warm gear and get his butt to work but instead me being the "strong willed woman" I am I went out there in my snow boots, winter coat, hat, gloves and pajama pants. Even though there are two abled bodied men in my home I allowed my pride to get the best of me.

Of course I do my best to teach my son to become a good man and treat women with honor and so on. But while I was sitting at work today it hit me...I had taken away a chance for him to be a man and shovel that driveway for his Momma this morning. I'm so accustomed to viewing him as my baby that sometimes I forget that he is becomming a man and needs to know there are certain chores around the home he should do without direction...cutting grass, shoveling snow and raking leaves just to name a few. This doesn't mean that my daughters will never have to do these chores just because they have a big brother I want all my children to be strong and self reliant and gain the know how.

So with all this said, I had a discussion with my son when I got home today. I expressed to him how important his role in the house is as a man and that I expect him to own up to it. I also, apologized for not giving him the opportunity to own up to it today...then I told him to take out the trash. This Momma knows how to be bossy too not just strong willed.

Yes, sometimes being too strong can be a weakness if you are not careful. I will not allow my strength take away from my son's chance to be a good man.

No Winter Olympics For This Bad American

2010-02-16T07:39:00.000-05:00

I feel like a bad American. I can't push myself to watch the Winter Olympics at all, it bores me something fierce. I tired, I seriously did...ok, for less than five minutes. It's sad I can't even tell you if we won, how many we won or who is representing the U.S. (or any other Country). Honestly, I'm wondering just how many people who aren't connected to the people involved in the Olympics really watch it?

Sure, I watched the NBA All Star game with no problem, but I like basketball. I'm not interested in skiing, tried it and hated it too damn cold and dangerous for me to be up on top of a mountain , never ice skated and hell naw I ain't bout to luge, I'll stick to good ol' fashioned sledding. I have no problem with shooting a little hoop with the kids as long as they are shorter than me so that now rules my son out, lol.

I feel badly now, I need to log onto ESPN and see what's happening in the Olympic world right now. I'm just interested in outcomes not all the drama I see on my homepage about someone's pants or costumes...yada yada yada. Just keep it simple and give me the scores man!

I am always proud to be an American but I'm still not going to force myself to watch sports that bore me just because. Have to be true to myself.

Happy Love Day! ♥

2010-02-14T11:27:00.000-05:00

I wanted to take a moment and wish all my sweet readers a Happy Valentines Day! I hope you receive all the love you give. Spend time with the ones who mean so much to you and remind them how much you appreciate and love them...not just today but everyday!

I'm grateful for everyone who reads my blogging madness. Now get off the computer and go give someone special a hug!

God bless!

Put Out That Cigarette!!!

2010-02-09T19:16:00.000-05:00

Growing up in our house we heard, "If you don't like it go to another room", when we acted as if the cloud of smoke was irritating us in anyway. Years ago most parents didn't even think of second-hand smoke harming their children never mind third-hand smoke. I'll give it to my mother she always kept the house clean from top to bottom but even so the possibility of the contamination from the fumes of a cigarette harming us remained.

I am not a smoker, can't stand cigarettes at all and will not allow anyone to smoke anywhere around my children, house or car. I honestly don't understand the big thrill some people obtain from the little suicide sticks. Regardless the fact remaines that millions of people smoke everyday, including my mother...still.

Just so happens that today on my Yahoo! homepage there was an article on how harmful third-hand smoke is to those who are exposed to it. I guess I should explain how the whole third-hand smoke thing works, just in case there are some who don't know. Nicotine is released in a vapor form when cigarettes burn. That vapor then absorbs into the furniture, carpet, curtains, blankets, pillows (where your children lay their heads) and even on walls. Of course it also absorbs into skin and clothes and passes around like a virus contaminating the world around the smoker in which continues to pass to others even if they do not smoke.

I'm not trying to offend anyone or tell anyone how to live their lives. Most grown-ups know what their lungs will look like if they continue to smoke and if they want to quit they will but if they don't want to then they won't. What I am trying to do is pass on the awarness of potential harm to our children and all the people who do not smoke and are still at risk. Therefore, if you are a smoker and have children think about it...no matter if you smoke outside on the patio when you come back in and pick up your child he/she will be exposed to harmful nicotine residue.

I hope you put out that cigarette for good! You can do it!

One Sheep, Two Sheep, Three Sheep...Dammit Still Can't Sleep

2010-02-05T06:48:00.000-05:00

Good Lord, I am one tired individual today. Sure everyday I am feeling sleepy most of the time but today is one of those where I'm gonna need to chew on coffee beans to function at all. I can hardly keep my eyes open on while I tyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyype. Snoozing on the Y everyone, my bad.

Yes, I do go to bed early but if I do fall asleep I'm up an hour later then from there it's over with I'm awake most of the night. I know, I have a lot going on in life right now but this is ridiculous I need some serious freakin sleep soon. You name it I probably tried it, no caffeine at night, yoga, meditation (not medication), and counting the little fluffy sheep. I even started sleeeping with earplugs so I won't be awoken by the nightly noises that occur around my house (won't get into that right now). That helped but I really do not like that I am not able to hear the kids if I need to.

Siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh, if anyone knows of anything I should try that's not medication related please contact me. Alright, I'm done whining for now...sleep y'all later...I mean see y'all later!

Lie To Me Mr. Groundhog....Come On!!!

2010-01-26T07:14:00.000-05:00

This is the time of the year where I am ready to see some sunshine, flowers blooming and how about some 60 degree weather! This bitter cold and being stuck indoors drives me crazy every year. I'm a go play outside kinda mommy and it's been since October we've been hibernating. This rainy-messy-non snowman quality snow sucks!

I'm counting on you Mr. Groundhog!!! Come on, lie to me if you have to. Tell me Spring is coming early this year...I need it bad! You look like you need to come out and play too. A little running around my chubby friend would be good for you. Please, pretty please!!! I was joking, you're adorable...soooooo, you're gonna go through with it this year? Huh, huh?

I know, y'all think I've done lost it! LOL It's okay, I think so too. Being cooped up all winter is to blame, I am for sure gonna be a snowbird like the Wise Aged Ones once I am able to do so. Now, those are some smart folks. Spring and Summer up North...ahhhhh. Fall and Winter down South...Oh Yeah!

Down Doggie

2010-01-24T18:07:00.000-05:00

One of my biggest challenges in life, because I'm always so busy, is to relax and learning to unwind after a long day. Following the advice of a good friend of mine who says I need to relax and try meditation, I have been practicing Yoga and meditation to accomplish some peace and exercise while I'm at it for the past few months. Amazingly, it really works! I try to squeeze in some time either in the morning or evening and sometimes my two girls (3 and 5 years old) join in. I always feel so refreshed following my sessions. I started off by viewing different Yoga dvds but now I enjoy putting some relaxing music on and doing my own thing. I work the areas that I feel need it the most at that time.

I'm far from a "pro" just yet, some of the positions they do are incredible and take extreme focus and strength. I am hoping the day will come where I will be able to get into the harder positions (without killing myself!). I have noticed major changes in the way I feel since picking up such of a healthy habit. I am more energized, focused, drink less soda and eat less junk food (still working on the whole donut thing). My favorite perk of all is the way my body seems to feel and look better than ever. My abs are tighter, legs are more flexible and stronger and my arms are toning up nicely.

If you haven't tried Yoga and are looking for a relaxing way to get in shape....what do you have to lose? Hmmm, stress and weight all at once!!!

Dis Momma is Ol' School-New School!

2010-01-22T19:38:00.000-05:00

I remember when I first discovered Hip Hop! Awwww, man! I was hooked! I was a pop locking lil' momma back in the day...waaay back, lol! We are talking back in the 80's-early 90's when life was all about big ass door knocking ear rings, the baddest (meaning good) hair cuts, baggy jeans and overalls with only one strap up! Ahh, those were the days..chillin' out in front on the stoop with my Boom Box, yup I said it I had me a Boom Box and it was "Dope"! I took the liberty of posting an old school rap jam that we all know and pass on from generation to generation...go head click play, you know you want to. Get ya' head bobbing, that's it you know the words too let it flow...oh oh you got it!

That brought you back, huh!? Who can forget the timeless classics: Tupac, Biggie, Run DMC, KRS 1, Public Enemy and many others when you listen to it you feel like you can take on the world, you feel their pain and it brings you back to where you was when you first hear that TAPE! We didn't have no darn cds...we had to rewind and fast forward and pray that we didn't get the tape jammed. We spent hours waiting for our songs to come on the radio so we could hit the record button then got mad if we recorded over another song we really liked...dammit!

Okay, now that we got the Hip Hop bug going I'm also a New School Momma! I may be in my mid....shhhh 30's but I still got it! I love new school music too. I am the one crazy mother in the Mini Van listening to Lil' Wayne rappin every word. Just the other day I was in the car with my 13 year old son who said, "Wow, Mom you know every song don't you?". I laughed, "Oh, silly child"..."Hell Yeah I do!"

Happy Birthday Na Na Bear!

2010-01-18T07:24:00.000-05:00

One of the best days of my life, probably the most painful too since you were a whopper at 10 pounds! I arrived at the hospital already at 7 centimeters dialated...NO TIME FOR AN EPIDURAL!!! OH, LORD, HELP ME!!! I will forever cherish what seems like just yesterday when I got to hold and kiss you for the first time.

I love you, Arianna Rose Lee. What a beautiful baby you are.

January 18, 2007

Look at you now! As beautiful as ever and always my Little Na Na Bear! Happy 3rd Birthday!

HAKUNA MATATA

2010-01-16T17:28:00.000-05:00

Before I even had children I enjoyed watching Lion King, one of my favorite Disney movies. I love saying the saying, "Hakuna Matata". In other words....No Worries! We all know the song and when we do most of us just gotta sing along.
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The phrase originated in Africa, of course, is Swahili and when broken down for definition goes as follows:

Ha - No

Kuna - Exist

Matata - Worries

Those are words of wisdom right there. We can go on in life stressing ourselves out over things we have absolutely no control over or we can live by the words made famous by a wart hog and meerkat. I don't know about you but I'm listening to Timon and Pumba and living Hakuna Matata!

Trust in God and praise him for all you have in life.

Ocean of Tears

2010-01-12T21:34:00.000-05:00

This is a poem I wrote to those who have made life a bit challenging for me. Writing is an outlet for me and allows me to express otherwise what I would hold in. As many others in this world I have been through my share of experiences the trick is turning them into lessons for yourself and others. I hope you enjoy my words.

Ocean of Tears

I put my all into what I thought was right,

Didn't matter it always turned into an ugly fight.

For many years I remained silent,

Why did you have to be so violent?

Had me thinking I was completely worthless,

Didn't feel pretty not even in a dress.

It's just fine, I don't despise you,

I wouldn't even want you to feel what I do.

You are forgiven as I continue to grow,

I pray you find peace and want you to know,

I have let go of painful years,

No longer drowning in an ocean of tears.

Michelle

Damn, Act Like You Have Some Manners!!!

2010-01-10T08:51:00.000-05:00

I have to get this off my chest. I know a lot of people in the world are stressed out due to the economy, their jobs and more but that doesn't give anyone the right to be just plain rude. In one day I must have came accross twenty grown ass ignorant adults.

Seriously, I was always taught to show respect to others, young and old. Saying "Please", "Thank You" or "Excuse Me" comes without a second thought. It just amazed me how many adults act as if they don't know any better. True, they probably don't give a crap what I or any other person thinks but it makes me just want to scream sometimes.

As a parent I instill the importance to my children of respecting others, including their siblings. We all know how we treat our sisters, brothers and other kids when we're smaller we are little monsters and fight over toys, snacks and attention just to name a few things. It's a given kids are going to argue over petty stuff and most of the time the words please or thank you never entered their minds. They're children we expect that from kids but I bet you I make sure I remind them to show good manners and that they have some upbringing when talking to anyone in the house our out the house.

It comes down to this people, simple words that's what they are. Show you have manners, damn it. Say thank you to the cashier, say please to your kids and say excuse me to the old lady in the way at the mall walking extra slow in front of you. Rudness doesn't look good on anyone I don't care how much money you have or how rough your life has been it doesn't excuse you and give you a free pass to be an ass. What kind of example are you to children (they don't have to be your children, they're still watching)? That's all we need in this world more rude people, tsk tsk, lol.

Okay, I feel slightly better now! Have a good day people. THANK YOU for reading my blog today!

SNOW DAY!!!! WHOO HOOO!!!

2010-01-08T07:57:00.000-05:00

Snow Day

Josh was pacing the hall late last night looking out the window to see that nasty ol' plow truck cleaning the streets in hopes he would fail and there would be the all mighty SNOW DAY!!! Of course I would crack up everytime he walked passed my bedroom door and kept making jokes as he had this serious look on his face, I couldn't help myself!

Most of my childhood years were spent in sunny Miami, Florida, we didn't know what the hell a Snow Day was! We would take matters into our own hands and created the "Beach Day" now of course it was that we skipped school (don't tell my kids, lol) and wore our bikinis under our clothing and hit the beach. Ahhhh, the good old days! I miss being a reckless teenager and I was a true handful growing up...okay, I still am!

Enjoy your day of kiddies!!! There are no Snow Days when you grow up and have to clock in at work...speaking of which I should get moving. I'm off to avoid the idiots on the road, have a great and fun day folks. Save some snow fun for me!

It's A New Year....Where's The New You?

2010-01-07T19:00:00.000-05:00

I am hoping that 2010 is off to a great start for everyone. I am looking forward to creating one of the best years of my life so far. I have never been much of one to give up but last year was a tough one for me. I honestly never experienced so much in one year at a time but again I made it through.

We are all surrounded by "Negative Nancies/Norms" in our life but you keep your head up. Give them a big smile (even when you have to force it) and tell them to have a nice day! When you smile and walk away you will feel better in the end. You can't allow the grouches to ruin your good day. Shut that garbage can and go visit Elmo, lol.

I know I'm being a little silly with it but I see so many miserable people in the world and most of them really have no reason to be pissed at the world they just are. Thinking that "everyone" is out to get you is ridiculous, unless you had a minute of fame shot on America's Most Wanted, lol.

I have recently in the past few months been meditating and doing some yoga from time to time. Hell yeah I get stressed out and want to burry my face in the pillow and scream but reality is I can not allow myself to fail and will not. I have three wonderful children who count on me everyday and I would never let them down nor myself. Of course I have my moments where a glass of wine helps too. I'm only human, right? lol

The more you sulk and drown yourself in negativity to worse you will feel. Get up, move around, go for a walk. I know it's cold outside, try sledding, a fun snowball fight with the kids or making a snowman. Change that channel when your sad and there's some chick flick sad drama on all it's going to do is make you feel worse. Put on something funny that will crack you up.

I know there are going to be somedays where you just need to cry, been there done that and I can bet more will come. Get the tears out, mourn and be sad but don't allow it to consume you.

You owe it to yourself to be happy now smile dammit! LOL : )

What I Got But What I Want Wednesday!

2010-01-06T07:59:00.000-05:00

Enough Said! : )

Overcoming Your Fears & Finding Strength To Forgive

2010-01-03T18:04:00.000-05:00

When I post motivational words on my blog I am speaking from personal experiences. Like a majority of you reading this I have lived my ups and downs in life and know there are more coming...but it's life and I promise you that regardless of how bad something may seem at the moment it will get better with time. It takes great strength to bring yourself to realize that it will sometimes and that is all up to you.

A lot of overcoming your fears and pain you have endured at the hands of someone else is forgivness. You are not forgiving the person for them do it for your own sanity. Do not allow another person's wrong ways to control your life. Find a positive outlet whether it'd be church, a support group, or good friends that will assist you in moving on in life to close that door and open a new one. If you continue swimming in a pool of negativity eventually you get tired and drown because it does nothing but wear you down.

I have been there, trust me I have. You feel like you can not accomplish anything in life either because it's what you heard growing up or while you were in a terrible relationship. You start to believe it and feel worthless. They are wrong, so wrong. You are worth more than that and deserve happiness.

I'm going to tell you, if you have children of any age and are in a miserable and/or abusive relationship they are also suffering. Our children are a lot more aware of what is going on than what we usually give them credit for. Think about it, we want our kids to grow into happy adults and be in healthy relationships...well if they are watching you get talked down to or smacked around chances are they may be in the same position at some point in life.

Life is too short and time is irreplaceable. If you need assistance in finding a way, please email me at mommamichie@yahoo.com I will do my best to help you find the resources you need, whatever your situation may be.

Challenge Yourself

2010-01-02T08:47:00.000-05:00

Happy New Year to all my readers, friends and family. I hope the excitement of another year has encouraged you all to make big strides in your life. Life changes around us everyday it's up to us to adapt to it all. Yesterday, my Mima walks over to me and says, "I want to learn to use the computer"! I was so excited for her, she's going to be 86 next week and continues to challenge herself to continue learning. The kicker is when I put the laptop in front of her she was on it, she started immeditaly scrolling around with the mouse and clicking then she even sent an email to my Dad! I know he will be excited as well when he sees her email that see typed on her own.

Get out of your comfort zone, learn something new challenge yourself. You only fail when you expect to fail. It's human nature to some people to believe that they can not accomplish something, I know first hand how change can be a scary thing at times, that is where they are so wrong! If you really want it, go for it and achieve it! It can be anything from learning a new language, loosing weight, starting your own business, playing a major league sport, to becomming President of the United States! It all starts with you and that dream you have...live that dream don't just keep closing your eyes waiting for the dream to come to you.

Find your motivation it's in you. Challenge yourself and you will be amazed at just how great you really are! Set your limits but overcome those boundaries.

Old-New Year's Resolutions

2009-12-28T07:42:00.000-05:00

It really trips me out when I hear people talking about some of their New Year Resolutions. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for setting goals in life and striving to achieve them at a realistic pace but waiting for a "New Year" to set them just doesn't make sense to me. When you postpone your goals/resolutions you are basically wasting time, by the time 2010 or whatever year comes along you could've been half way to achieving it already.

I know, this is just my opinion but time is not on your side. You never know what will happen in life that is why I don't believe in waiting for a New Year to make resolutions.

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I named the title "Old-New Year's Resolutions" because I have known many people that continue to make the same resolutions every year. For example:

2010 New Year Resolutions!

1. Work out 20 minutes everyday

2. Eat healthier

3. Loose 25 pounds (goes back to #1 and #2)

4. Spend more time with family and friends

5. Quit smoking

6. Quit drinking

7. Get organized

8. Go to Church

I could go on and on with this list but y'all get the point. These are all simple daily tasks that are achievable everyday not something you should put off to a New Year's Resolution. Make that list today and try your best to start TODAY. Start small then get into the more difficult resolutions as you surpass the simple ones.

At this time of the year you are going to find tons of articles on this subject, hear it on the radio and see it on the news. Do what is best for you, take each day and make it worth it.

Put your heart and mind to it and you can achieve anything! Believe in yourself! I hope you all have a blessed New Year!

A Day I Never Forgot

2009-12-22T08:13:00.001-05:00

December 22nd has been one of the hardest days for me since I was 8 years old. It marks the anniversary of the death of my Grandfather, Raymond H. McCarthy. I will never forget this day as long as I live. Three days before Christmas (December 22, 1982) one of the strongest men I have ever known vanished due to a sudden heart attack.

He was a tough soldier, firm but loving Father and Grandfather who would do anything for his little girls, my Mother, Stefanie my little sister and myself. He was a true artist and craftsman...wonder where I got it from well there ya' go! He saved me when I climbed up a tall tree and couldn't figure out how to get back down (I was about 5 years old and a serious tomboy).

I remember one time he, my father and I all went fishing (after I dug up the worms in the yard, lol) I was first to catch a fish after hours of sitting and waiting for them to bite....they took me home and went back themselves! LOL There's no way a little girl is going to fish better than two manly men!

To this day every time I go sledding I think of him. I must've been about two or three years old when a video was taken of me, my grandpa and dad at Roger Williams Park sledding down this big hill.

Raymond H. McCarthy was and will always remain a hero to me. We love and miss you Grandpa always. I know you are resting peacefully.

Favorite Christmas Movies

2009-12-21T19:00:00.001-05:00

Every year we all look forward to our favorite Christmas movies to come on television. While most of those I know can't wait to see Charlie Brown's Christmas, Frosty The Snowman, Rudolph and all the other classics I get a kick out of watching a hysterical classic......

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation!

I can't help it, this movie cracks me up, every time I watch it. My favorite scene is where Chevy Chase oils up the metal sled and takes off down that hill. Oh, man just thinking of it makes me laugh what an idiot. Ahhhh, gotta love it!
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Watch it for yourself for a good laugh!
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Classic just classic! I have always had a silly sense of humor and love watching movies or tv shows that are probably considered bad taste to most others. Don't sleep on me though, I also will watch the History Channel, National Geographic, Discovery, etc!
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Life is too short to always be so serious. Enjoy your holiday everyone! Make memories that will last forever.
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Merry Christmas to all!

I'm a Basket Case!

2009-12-15T15:14:00.000-05:00

Help Me! Help Me! I have turned into a basket case! Of course I'm kidding, I've always been a basket case not just turning into one now! LOL

Here are some of the baskets I have made this holiday season.

My wonderful sister and I made handmade soap so they are literally filled with love!
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I hope all my blogging beauties are enjoying this holiday season. I gotta tell you I am but I am also so grateful that it's ALMOST OVER!!! Whooo, hooo! Goodbye 2009 I am not gonna miss you! Hello 2010..."How U Doin'?"!

Seriously, 2009 has been a rough year for me so I'm all ready for a great 2010. Many blessings to us all.

Family Traditions

2009-11-29T15:44:00.000-05:00

I hope that everyone had a terrific holiday and has recuperated from all the cooking and eating. Our family had a yummy day and we enjoyed the long weekend by watching movies and hanging out.
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I thought I'd share one of our family favorite traditions. For the past ten years our family has had the tradition of making ornaments to add to our tree. We do this every year on the Friday following Thanksgiving. It's one of my most favorite days of the year!

Watching everyone concentrate fully and seriously on painting/making their ornaments brings me joy. The kids look forward to doing multiple artsy projects all the time. Most of my family (mainly the women) have creative bones and like to draw, paint and crafts in general. As you can see in the photo below, Mima is also artistic!

Michie and Mima

Arianna and Kiara

My version of a Starry Night Ornament

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Family traditions can be as simple or detailed depending on the family and what they like to do. Creating them gives everyone involved a loving feeling and they tend to get really excited knowing a family special occasion is coming up.
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I'm thankful to all those who read my blog. : )

Gobble Gobble

2009-11-25T06:49:00.001-05:00

Mmmmmm, mmmmmm! Tomorrow is Gobble Gobble Day! This has to be my favorite time of the year, except that it gets too damn cold in Ohio, but still love the holidays.

I am extra excited this year because my sister, Stefanie, and I are cooking together. This girl can cook, she comes up with some unique dishes and they always taste great. Me? Oh, I can cook too, when I want to, lol. I don't enjoy it as much as she does probably because it has become a chore for me since I have a family of six...seems someone is always hungry.

I am gonna keep this short. I wanted to wish all of my online blogging buddies a Happy Thanksgiving. I hope you all enjoy every minute of it.

God bless!

Snuck Away!

2009-11-14T11:01:00.000-05:00

Hey there strangers! I know it's been a minute since I've had a chance to blog lately. If you've been following me for a while you know my life is full of caring for others so my free time can be limited for the most part. But guess what....I snuck away and found a free moment, ha ha!

Let me see, what's been going on around this house since my last post...hmmmm. Oh, right, Mima (my grandmother/abuela) has been home for two weeks and is doing pretty good. She is walking well and her spirits are at their best. I'm pretty proud of her and her accomplishments, it's kinda like having another child in the house I praise her as she does her daily exercises and eats her vegetables! Go figure, she used to make me eat mine when I was little now she won't eat hers! LOL But things are going well, I am happy that we will be able to spend the holidays together since it's been ten years since our last time.

As for my other three children they are all doing great. I am trying my best to juggle every ones "Mommy Time". With three kids at 13, 5 and 2 it can be a challenge sometimes seeing that they are all at different stages in life. My son, Joshua, is the 13 year old bless his heart he helps me all the time. The other two are girls and usually are fighting over the tv or toys, the five year old wants to watch iCarly/Hannah Montana etc. and the two year old wants to watch Dinosaur Train. And of course when Kiara, 5, has a toy Arianna, 2, always wants it...ahhhh, get used to it Kiara she will be into your clothes too in a couple of years, lol.

In general life has been hectic but I am keeping my sanity, as much as I can anyways. I continue to try to grow and keep my faith knowing that I will not be given more than I can handle.

Till next time, take care y'all!

Ps.) Sorry to Theta Mom, I haven't been able to participate with Theta Mom Thursdays lately...I will try to get back on soon!

No Speakie Ingles (Probably Gonna Offend You!)

2009-10-23T17:20:00.000-04:00

I have never posted twice in one day before but I really need to vent about this one! On my Yahoo! front page was an article by the Dallas News that REALLY PISSED ME OFF! It says that in the past three years there have been 39 tickets written to drivers for NOT SPEAKING ENGLISH! WTF!
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The latest person ticketed was pulled over for making an illegal u-turn and leaving her license at home...this I can understand. Adding on the ticket to be fined for being a "Non-English Speaking Driver" is just pure racist.

I don't really care what any one's opinion is of Hispanics in this country....Get Over It! It's not going to change, WE (Yes, I am Irish-Cuban!) are not going anywhere. Thinking about it, hell just about everyone one here is a product of immigration. If someone in your family didn't get on a boat, a plane or run the border line to come to this country you probably wouldn't be here.

Even though I am American born and speak English and Spanish there are more times than not where I feel the brush of racism. Someone always has a little remark about immigration and illegal "aliens" and of course how "those people" need to speak English or go back to "their country". Shut the Hell Up! It sounds so ignorant and makes me just want to speak Spanish even more just to piss you off! This is just what I do, I will hang pictures of my beautiful bi-racial children up at work, hang my Cuban and American flags in my rear view mirror and just for fun call up my "Non-Speaking English" Abuela and carry on a full blown Spanish conversation just to make you uncomfortable. Yup, this is where the Bitch comes out in me! I have absolutely no tolerance for stupidity or ignorance and will piss you off even more with a smile on my face. : )
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Okay, back to the article, it goes on to say that it probably was a "Sincere mistake" (yeah right) and published a public apology to the Spanish-Speaking Community. All of the monies collected are to be refunded to those that received the citations. Whooo-Hoooo! Zippity Do Da! What about the way they made them feel about their culture. As if it's not hard enough to come to this country and try to fit in regardless if you are Asian, Hispanic, Hebrew, Indian, African, EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT!!!!

I'm done venting and making enemies now. I just wish this country and world would realize life is too damn short to worry about what language someone speaks or what color their skin is. Seems pretty sad that so many still continue to do so. I guess/hope/pray one of these days it will be different.

Click Here to see the report done by a Local Dallas News Station.

Federal Regulations For U.S. Drivers

Source: Dallas News, www.WFAA.com

Still Blessed

2009-10-23T08:18:00.000-04:00

It's been one of those weeks where you feel the load is so overbearing and you're about to collapse. Everything seems to be going wrong all at once. The kids have been acting up more than usual. Work has been stressing you out. There's so many repairs in the house that need done and there's no money to fix any of them. Everyone expects so much out of you. And to top it off this is just the short list of problems in life.

In case you are wondering, I am speaking on a personal level and also for those who have been feeling this weight for some time. Guess what, I am not going to allow any of it to break me down though. I know God has something great in store for me so I will wait patiently until it is my turn to receive. Although, I have to say that even through all my headaches lately in life I still feel blessed.

I am sad that this week I was not able to participate in Theta Mom Thursdays this week. I am hoping to squeeze in some time for me this weekend, even if I have to lock myself in the bathroom, lol. Big Shot Out to Heather at Theta Mom, she is a terrific lady!

Have a wonderful day everyone!

Wordless Wednesday - Fall Fun

2009-10-21T07:40:00.003-04:00

Look Ma' No Feet!

Jump, Jump!

Ta-Da!

Sittin' Pretty in Leaf Heaven!

Ahhhh, Being a Kid is Great!

I Got Me Some Boots, Y'all

2009-10-16T07:24:00.000-04:00

Ha! Ha! It was that time of the week again yesterday....Theta Mom Thursdays! This is where I take an hour to MYSELF and do what I want to do without feeling any guilt about it! Hmmmm, Guess what? I accomplished just that, yup I sure did y'all! I left the house earlier than usual before work and stopped off to do some shopping.

What did I buy? Well, those who have been reading my ridiculous posts know that I am a shoe girl. I wanted a pair of simple flat black boots. After walking around the shoe isles for 45 minutes trying on all the sexy heels and stiletto boots I found what I was really there for.

Just plain ol' simple and comfortable black boots. Ahhhhh, but I will be heading back out on another shoe adventure soon and getting some of those hot sexy momma shoes too, lol!
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I hope all of our Theta Mom friends got their free time too. Till next week ladies!

Being Treated Like A Lady - You Are Worth It!

2009-10-14T16:12:00.000-04:00

Yesterday I went to visit Mima in the rehabilitation, who by the way is doing a wonderful job regaining her strength and walking again. I always feel sad when I leave her because we tend to have great conversations about anything and everything.

On my way out there was a well dressed older gentleman walking the opposite way down the long hall, he stopped and tipped his hat to me as I passed and said, "Have a lovely evening". I actually blushed a little as I said, "Well, thank you, you do the same". It was such of a nice gesture on his part and reminded me that I DESERVE TO ALWAYS BE TREATED LIKE A LADY!

Not that I settle for less but now a days most of us are in rush mode all the time and tend not even notice when a man does something nice for us. If you respect yourself and know that you are worth it a man will treat you as deserve.

Recognizing your own self worth is a lot harder than it sounds, I know first hand because I didn't always realize that I was worth having doors held open for me and more. I struggled with my own security for years allowing others (family and a not so significant other) to tell me that I was not worth anything at all but I KNOW BETTER! I am a wonderful loving woman and a terrific mother who deserves nothing but the best in life. And so don't you! Don't get me wrong I'm not telling you ladies to go yelling at your husbands saying that you deserve to drive a Bentley or a new Coach purse. What you do deserve is to be treated with respect and love at all times. This is a two way street now so don't forget to always treat your man/loved ones with the same respect.

A Poetic Sunday

2009-10-11T11:04:00.000-04:00

Just yesterday you were small

hanging onto the monkey bars

trying to stretch yourself tall

making wishes on the stars

saying a prayer before bed

I tickled you on more time

before kissing your sweet head

sleep well till the clock's chime

today your small enough to cradle

tomorrow is another story

thankful for being able

motherhood brings me such glory

by: Michelle Lee

My So Much Needed Theta Mom Time Out Thursday

2009-10-08T07:27:00.000-04:00

Oh my goodness, let me tell y'all just how cranky I been lately because of lack of sleep and being on the constant go. NAH....nevermind! I will tell y'all just how I spent my sweet one hour all by myself yesterday afternoon instead!

Shhhhh....don't tell anyone, I laid my sleepy ass on the sofa and watched an episode of My Antonio. I'm not one for an afternoon nap unless I am seriously ill but I did lounge on that couch like a pro-potato and enjoyed every minute of it!

Once the episode was over and so was my hour I heard the beeping of the dryer sounding off it's reminders of all the work that awaits me in mommy land. So I pouted for another five to ten minutes before actually moving. "I'm coming, I'm coming...you stupid load of laundry, dammit" I yelled out (this is when you know you're loosing your mind, talking to laundry and household objects). My OCD took over and I jumped up because I know just how much I hate wrinkled clothes.

I am so grateful that I did get that one beautfiul peaceful hour to myself. Next week I want to do something rather than vegitate....hmmmm, maybe a mani and pedicure would be nice. One step at a time Momma! LOL

Wordless Wednesday

2009-10-07T16:17:00.000-04:00

Just a few pics I like.

You Control You!

2009-10-03T08:01:00.000-04:00

I'm in no way perfect but I do know that in order the live the life YOU want you have to set realistic goals and work at them everyday. Oh, and definitely take responsibility for you own actions, that's a big one. You can't walk around this world blaming everyone else for your debt, getting fired, the way someone treats you, or even that extra 20 pounds you kept on after the baby was born. I mean, seriously YOU are YOU and are the only one in control of YOU!

I'm not going to get into too many details because I'm guessing that all of you that read my blog are all adults and know right from wrong. Read the following statements I've heard lately, all are negative and complaints without any solutions being put into play or even thought.

"My ex maxed out our credit cards now I am in such bad debt"

"If Sally didn't tell that I was coming in late most days last week I'd still have a job"

"Juan/ita only calls me when he/she wants something, then once he/she gets it

I can't even get a call back most of the time"

"While I was pregnant all I craved was candy now I can't loose this *baby* fat"

I'm gonna tell you I have been through more than my share in life and have been guilty of not owning up to my own faults; the key is to wake up ant take that ownership. If someone treats you with disrespect it's probably because you allow it to happen. That rolls into the whole debt and relationship category amongst more in life. If you feel your being taken advantage of or being abused in anyway it's time to move on, Now!

Don't ask someone to cover up something you did wrong at work, most likely it will backfire, they are looking out for themselves when it comes down to it. Make arrangements with management if you know you're gonna be late.

Come on ladies, I have three kids and gained weight too but it's up to you (unless you have health issues) to regain your pre-baby figure. I know someone with a 16 year old still blaming their child for that weight gain.

Find solutions to these problems in life, they do exist you just have to put more effort. Giving up is the easy route it takes work to be a better you. Make a list of goals and take action to accomplish them.

When the clouds come with that fierce storm family and friends will lend you an umbrella but it's up to you to open it to stay dry.

No Theta Mom Thursday For Yet This Week

2009-10-01T19:07:00.001-04:00

Getting time to myself this week has been a real challenge. Life has been so hectic around here lately; kids been sick, running to the nursing home daily to check on Mima, taking care of all her personal business to assure nothing falls through the cracks (Medicare and etc.), trying to spend quality time with the kids, the house stuff , work and blah, blah, blah.

The list grows daily but I'm hanging in there with a smile because I know God believes I can handle it all so I am not going to doubt him. My very helpful husband is off this weekend so I'm sure (hint, hint-he reads the blog occasionally,lol) he will be more than willing to make sure this tired Momma gets a little time for HERSELF!

Once I do finally get my Theta Mom Thursday time for me I will definitely post about it. Hope the rest of my lovely blogging buddies got some time!

National Breast Cancer Month

2009-09-25T23:00:00.000-04:00

Most of us are all aware that we should get an annual mammogram on top of doing our own monthly self examinations. Do we all do it? Of course not, there are times when us moms forget where we left our head at because we all have so much on our plate as is. All kidding aside, this is one real serious topic ladies and gentlemen (yes, men can get Breast Cancer too).

Not only for us but for our loved ones as well. What would happen to our lovely children, husbands, siblings, best friends and more if we didn't take care of ourselves? Hmmmm, I don't even want to pass that thought through my mind right now.

I want you to check out this website National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. There is so much useful information available including where to go in order to receive a FREE and LOW COST MAMMOGRAMS...yup, so there's NO EXCUSE for not getting one if you are due or never had one and your in your 30's or later.

Why am I preaching you ask? Well, just about two years ago I found a large lump in my left breast and after going through many tests, a mammogram, ultra sound and even though I am claustrophobic two MRIs. All is well, they (yes more than one lump was found by the docs) were not cancerous. But I am not going to count my chickens before they hatch, I will schedule my annual mammogram and be a good girl because I want to annoy this world for a much longer time. I hope you do the same.

Ahhhh, Theta Mom Thursday!

2009-09-24T07:03:00.000-04:00

It's time for Theta Mom Thursday! YAY! I had mine on Wednesday of this week, I had two hours to MYSELF! I went wild, I partied, I danced....hmmmm, okay I read my latest O Magazine edition and took a long bath!

Just so happens that my husband and the kids were going to my in-laws but I was in the middle of dishes and wanted to get somethings accomplished in the house. So he agreed and took them with him while I stayed to "clean" the house. Once I did the dishes and straightened up the living room a little I sat on my ass for about an hour watching 106 and Park on BET (catching up on my videos, lol).

Weirdly enough I didn't experience any form of guilt this time around. I usually do but not this time! I have been so exhausted with running around like a mad woman lately that I really needed a small amount of time to do nothing but something for me.

Ahhhhhh....thank you Heather at Theta Mom for reminding all of us that it's okay to spend time to ourselves and not feel guilty!
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Enjoy your time ladies!

Whooo, Hoooo, Shoe Shopping

2009-09-21T14:58:00.000-04:00

I will start this off with admitting I have a problem....I'm a shoe addict. I really don't even know how many I own at this point but I want more! I am thinking that this is the same for most women in the world.

I have been feeling kinda blah lately and I know that a really, really nice pair of shoes would cheer me up! I was browsing some online and this is what I found on Zappos so far.

I won't tell you how much they cost...let's just say I'm dreaming, lol. As nice as it is to look online at these hot shoes I sure would love to try them on and strut through the store!
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((((siiiiiigh)))) I guess I will throw my Nikes on and clean up the house and run errands. One of these days this Momma will be wearing a pair of these shoes....hmmm, better yet I will be wearing them in Paris dammit!
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Have a great day Mommas!

Arrrrgh! It be talk like a Pirate Day!

2009-09-19T16:58:00.000-04:00

Didn't ya know it'd be talk like a pirate day? It's international didn't ya know. Well ya prolly know if ya be on the ol' internet often enough. It comes round every year at this time, September 19th. It all started back in 95' when two bootlegging men were playing a daring battle of raquetball and started hollering like pirates.
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So here it be a phenomenon. Even Saturday Night Live did a skit on it!-

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So get ya hook and look for some booty (treasure people treasure, lol)

Even President Obama thinks Kayne is an A$$!

2009-09-16T07:40:00.000-04:00

I guess the President of the United States can't even have a discussion on the Pop Culture topic with his staff without them posting his words on Twitter! All over my Yahoo homepage this morning was the topic on President Obama's opinion on Kayne West.

Sure it must be good to be President but damn he can't even express what a jackass Kayne is (something that most of the world agrees on) without someone on the White House staff Tweeting it and sparking up some huge debate.

Here's my opinion....WHO THE HELL CARES!!! So what President Obama knows that the over rated rapper is showing his butt and comments on it. I'm surprised someone isn't Tweeting every time the man comes out of the bathroom with the Sunday Comics in his hand...God forbid he be human and have an opinion.

There's so much going on in our country and the world for that matter and people are wasting time caring about what he says about Kayne! Come on people get your priorities straight.

By the way, Kayne West has always been an egotistical ass he can't blame this one the Henney! He's getting the publicity he wanted that's for sure! Duh!

Y'all have a blessed day and watch what ya tweet it can come back and bite ya in the ass later.

Source: Associated Press

Crazy Ass Mamas

2009-09-14T07:33:00.000-04:00

This has been on my mind since school started back in session for the kids. Why in the world are parents...no, no let me not sugar coat this one, MOTHERS drop their children off at school still in their pajamas and rollers in their hair. Wait I'm not done...then the same mother picks their poor child up in the afternoon dressed but half assed literally! Then to make matters worse it's not just the young twenty something year old moms doing it, I know this one woman has to be in her forties or she just had a really rough life.

I don't usually talk/gossip about people but this is so ridiculous to me. How embarrassing to these elementary children for their mothers to go up to their teacher with some holey silk pajama bottoms, a severely faded t-shirt, house shoes and some rollers in their burnt dyed hair and then only to show up at 2:30 p.m. in some dukes (something that most men don't want to see trust me I'm still recovering) and/or 3 inch spiked heels.

Overall, I just think it's so sad. Of course we all have our "bad" days but damn some of these crazy ass mamas have taken it to the extreme.

Okay! I'm done venting. Have a great day and remember please put some freakin clothes on when taking/picking your kids to school. : )

Health Matters

2009-09-12T21:47:00.000-04:00

Boy, what a few weeks it has been! I can not express to y'all just how exhausted I have been lately. But through it all I am keeping my head up and remain to feel as blessed as always.

My last post was in regards to me going to Miami to bring my abuela back to Ohio to live with us so I may care for her. Well, that has been taken care of and she is with us, we arrived home this past Sunday and I have been busy since. She seems to being doing okay but I had to call 911 and have her brought to the ER the other day because I noticed something wasn't right. It turns out that my "motherly" instincts work on her too she had a bad urinary tract infection that could have become really dangerous to her health had she not gone to the hospital. Also, we have come to find out that since she has been bed ridden for so long that she now has blood clots in both of her lower legs.

I think once she gets some physical therapy things will be much better for her. With diabetes keeping active is a must especially with the elderly.

We all need to watch our health in all areas. Keep active, substitute that candy bar for some grapes (except when pms occurs of course!). Think about your future health what you do now will come back to haunt you in 30 - 40 years and most of the time it is too late by then. Keep your mind right and listen to your body.
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I'm listening to mine right now saying I need to get some sleep. Good night y'all! We will talk again soon.

God Bless!

Love Heals

2009-08-30T13:17:00.000-04:00

Everyone has that one person in life that they've always looked up to, mine is my Mima (grandmother/abuela) who is now at the young age of 85. For as long as I can remember she has always inspired me that regardless of what challenges may come in life to keep faith and learn from them.

She has always been the "strong one" in our family and has overcome so much. I love Mima more than words are able to express and would do whatever I need to do to assure she knows just how much she is appreciated for all she has done for her family.

Mima with Valentine's Day flowers I sent her.

The unfortunate thing is that her health lately has taken a hard left turn and has resulted her to be in and out of hospitals and rehabilitation homes over these past few months. She has had diabetes for a long time and now due to non-movement being bed ridden at the hospital and rehab facilities, lately suffers from pain in her legs and is unable to stand or walk at the moment. It is so difficult for my father and I who are extremely close to Mima to see her in such discomfort.

Last month while in a rehab, Mima decided that she wants to move to Ohio with me so I can care for her. I am so happy and excited for the honor of pampering her the way she deserves. I moved from Florida 9 1/2 years ago due to some drama going on in life (will post about that another time). It was one of the hardest decisions I made because I wasn't able to see her as often as I wanted.

Anyhow, I have been setting up her room with all her belongings that my dad has sent via UPS and I'm leaving this coming Friday, September 4th to go to Miami to bring her back with me on Sunday. Great, right! Well, the only thing is she may not be healthy enough to fly just yet so our return travel plans may be pushed back. I am still going to Miami regardless, I wouldn't pass up seeing her.
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I want you all to think about this:

If you love someone and cherish them please let them know as often as possible. One lifetime may seem long but seriously it's not and it goes by quickly. If you have an elderly family member or good friend in the hospital/rehabilitation facility call them or stop by just for a little while. It's so unfair that many of them never have a visitor or calls from their "loved ones". Stop and grab some flowers or have the kids make them a picture to hang on their board. It will brighten their day and love heals more than any medicine can, in it's own way of course. Time isn't going to sit still for anyone and before you know it they won't be here.

God bless.

My Theta Mom Time Out

2009-08-28T07:31:00.001-04:00

Getting some quality "me time" can be a challenge in our home. But I did get a whole hour to MYSELF this week! I didn't do anything extravagant or pampering, instead I just vegged in front of the television watching VH1 destroying my mind.

Don't get me wrong, VH1 is an awesome channel! I can't get enough of My Antonio, The T.O. Show, and Megan Wants a Millionaire. Ok, Ok and from time to time I will watch Real Chance of Love...cracks me up. Junk food for the mind but taste good!

Normally, I would have opted to get my hair done or went shopping but the kids were sleeping and the house was quiet and I could actually hear the t.v. without the captions on for a change.

Then once my hour of watching dramatic crazy women fighting over some man who probably won't stay with any of them regardless. I drifted off to sleep with no problem.

I will tell you that next week...my me time will be more exciting! I'll be on a plane going to Miami! More details on that coming soon! I'm off to the wonderful land of work now...ha! lol

Hannah Montana Rockin' Party!

2009-08-24T08:05:00.001-04:00

Rock n' Roll Baby! I'm gonna Party Like A Rock Star!

That's right, Mommy, I will be the next multi-millionare 16 year old, lol!

mmmmmm....cake! I have to say Sam's Club never lets me down!

Not only is it nice to look at, it was so yummy too!

Theta Mom Thursday!

2009-08-20T07:52:00.000-04:00

Today is Theta Mom Thursday! What is that you ask?! Well, my wonderfully intelligent blogging friend, Heather at Theta Mom is starting a new trend for moms.

Every Thursday the challenge is to find one hour to have all to yourself, no kids, no husbands, no dishes, etc! Enjoy yourself, get your hair done, nails done, read a trashy book, sit in front of the television and watch a whole show without tivo rewinding what you missed, or just blog your heart away!

For more information visit Theta Mom and grab her Theta Mom Thursdays button! I have mine!

I'm in, are you!?

Happy Birthday Kiara!

2009-08-19T07:58:00.000-04:00

My little "bushka" on the day we brought her

home from the hospital, so sweet.

It seems like time has flown by so quickly.

Today our little princess is five.

Happy Birthday, Kiara!

We Love You!

Michael Jackson to be buried at Forest Lawn Cemetery

2009-08-18T07:35:00.001-04:00

Just imagine all the drama Michael Jackson had to endure between his family and the greedy business people while he was alive.

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Although, Joe Jackson finally informed the world that his son who passed away a week shy of two months ago will be buried on August 29th, which is Michael's 51st birthday. Happy Birthday Michael! You will finally be laid to rest at the Los Angeles Forest Lawn Cemetery.
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Also, there's a movie being collaborated by AEG Live, Sony Corporation and Columbia pictures that will be released on October 30, 2009 with included footage from MJ's final rehearsal.
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I am just praying that the outcome of his untimely passing will soon arise along with justice being served.
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I know Michael seemed to be quite odd to most and had his share of legal issues but he truly deserves to rest peacefully.

Ahhhh, Wordless Wednesday!

2009-08-12T07:55:00.000-04:00

Stop Running!

2009-08-11T07:41:00.000-04:00

How many times a day do I say/yell, "Please, Stop Running in the House"? I guess not enough as you can see from Arianna's 9 stitches on her eyebrow.

When I heard my youngest screaming in pain I don't even know if it took me a whole second to get to her. I immediately yelled for my husband and placed a band aid over the wound along with an ice pack and we were off to the children's hospital.

The nurses and doctors at our local children's hospital were so wonderful and did a great job closing up that deep wound, 2 stitches inside and 7 on the outside. Arianna is such a trooper, her tolerance level is amazing for a two year old. She asked for Krispy Kreme donuts when we left and as you can see in her picture she got them!

Of course it was the result of tripping and landing on the corner of the bad old coffee table. You ask why didn't I have the child proof corner protectors on? I did...and they were pried off by the same little hands that attacked my table. The lovely cherry coffee table has been removed from the living room and placed into the "man cave" for the time being.

This just had me thinking, when we were kids there was no such thing as "baby/child proofing" your home or always wearing your seat belt in the car. Thank goodness we have angels by our side because I know I was always (still am) accident prone.

We take her tomorrow to have them removed...maybe this time we will get Cold Stone Ice Cream! : )

Roller Coaster Weekend

2009-08-10T07:36:00.000-04:00

Hey, Mom, do you want to get on the Dragster with me? It's only over 400 ft tall with a 90 degree drop! Please!!!! Mom's reply, "Heckies Naw"!

Started out as a soggy Saturday at Cedar Point......

But soon Snoopy arrived and the sun came a shinning!

Hearts were jumping up and down, little girls were screaming and giggling!

Snoopy is so talented he even ice skates! What a show!

Thrills and chills! Watching the kids ride and have so much fun is so heartwarming for me. I'm so blessed.

It's FRIDAY!!! Whoo - Hoo!

2009-08-07T07:32:00.000-04:00

I cannot express to y'all how happy/thankful I am that Friday is finally here. No, nothing special happening today, except it's FRIDAY!

This week has seemed to be the loooooooongest week ever. I am so glad that my work week is finally coming to an end.

Watch out for Debo! LOL

Our Trip To The Zoo! (Wordless Wednseday)

2009-08-05T07:22:00.000-04:00

Happy Friendship Day!

2009-08-02T09:02:00.000-04:00

Today is Friendship Day! This celebration takes pace every year on the first Sunday of August and has done so since 1935.

I have met so many wonderful people from blogging and networking. I admire so many of you who share your expertise and life experiences with all of your readers.

I hope you all have a blessed day. Be sure to wish your friends a Happy Friendship Day! Fnd some great ideas, qoutes, ecards and more at FriendshipDay.org.

I Don't Care Day

2009-07-30T07:58:00.000-04:00

Alright people, I'm feeling unmotivated this morning to do anything that I'm "suppose" to do. For example: go to work, do dishes, mop the floors, and oh how can we forget the mountain of laundry that never goes away.

Today (perfect day for it), I want to sit in my pjs and watch junk television and eat chips out of the bag. Hmmmm, let's not forget cookies too. : ) Check my emails, post comments on all my blogging buddies great posts and just relax. Of course everyone is home since it's the Summer so even if I did stay home I would be cleaning up something or playing referee between the kids. A girl can dream can't she, lol.
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I guess what I'm trying to say is that I need a "I don't care" day.

Picture Source: Tinker.com

I received a "One Lovely Blog Award"!

2009-07-23T15:22:00.000-04:00

Winners Grab Your Award Above!

I'm so excited to receive my first blog award! Thank you to Theta Mom who awarded it to me and 14 other well deserving mommas! Theta's blog is heartwarming be sure to check her out!

The rules to receiving the "One Lovely Blog Award" are the following:

1. Post the award on your blog along with recognition to the person who gave it to you with a link to their blog.

2. Award 15 other well deserving blogs that you have discovered.

3. Don't forget to contact the winners you chose for the award!

Here are my 15 "One Lovely Blog Award" winners!

1. The Thrifty Home
2. Confessions of a Housewife
3. Hanging with Mrs. Cooper
4. A Little Tipsy
5. Blah, Blah, Blog
6. Girl, Outnumbered
7. Girl is 4 Girl Blogs
8. I'm A Hot Mom
9. Heck of a Bunch
10. Majestic Child
11. Means to Eat
12. Mom on the Random
13. My Brown Baby
14. Sunshine and Lemonade
15. The Purple Pea

Well there are my choices for the awards! Thanks again to Theta for my award!

God Bless!

"Whites Only" Swim Club in Philladelphia Update!

2009-07-22T15:37:00.000-04:00

First let me thank and congratulate all those who took the time to stand up and speak up about the discrimination happening at The Valley Club in Philadelphia. You should all be proud of yourselves!

According to Lebanon Daily News in Pennsylvania the U.S. Department of Justice is investigating the club turning down the suburban Philadelphia camp to have a day of swimming at their facility because of their race majority (Hispanics and Blacks). This is happening because you spoke up, signed the online letters to the club and to the U.S. Department of Justice. You can make a difference, no it's not going to happen overnight but if you give up it will not happen at all!

We must all teach our children equality and respect for others regardless of how ignorant some may be. They must know that two wrongs do not make a right and the way to retaliate is by speaking up and taking it to a non-violent stance.

Join Color of Change today to learn more on how your voice can make a difference in America.

Thanks to one of my great readers, Sharon, who pointed out Tyler Perry sending all these great kids to Disney World! Read it here

God Bless.

Source: Lebanon Daily News

Michael Jackson still NOT buried!

2009-07-21T07:47:00.000-04:00

It's been almost a month since the man passed away, come on people let him rest peacefully somewhere.

At the moment his body remains at the Forest Lawn Cemetery in L.A. and his family is still debating on whether to fight to bury him at Neverland or not. According to Katherine Jackson Neverland was not such of a happy place for Michael and should not be buried there. Prior Neverland Ranch neighbors also dispute the idea of laying the King of Pop to rest there. So the saga continues with them going back and forth disagreeing while his body turns to bones above ground.

Michael should just be buried at Forest Lawn Cemetery (soon, people, soon!).

This drama is just another reason why I have chosen to be cremated rather than buried to be dug up when the land is needed in 200 years or so.

Oh Yeah! It's National Ice Cream Day Y'all!

2009-07-19T10:15:00.000-04:00

Back in the day (1984) Ronald Regan declared that the whole hot steamy month of July would be National Ice Cream Month but specifically the 3rd Sunday of July is National Ice Cream Day! Yummy Yummy Holiday for ice cream lovers!

I love ice cream just like most others but I struggle with lactose intolerance so I limit just how much I inhale at a time, lol. Now my brother-in-law should win an ice cream eating contest he doesn't care if it's 20 degrees below zero he's gonna have him some ice cream. But that's okay because there is also an Ice Cream designated holiday on December 13th.

There's so many choices to make in ice cream flavors now a days. So pick up your favorite pint today and celebrate! We are!

Have a tasty holiday!

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Mom Network Groups

2009-07-18T20:14:00.000-04:00

Am I the only one that feels overwhelmed with all the Mom Network Groups available to us? Which ones are the most beneficial to what I am interested in? Who has the least amount of spam? Heck I don't know!

I am a member of several different Mom Networks at the moment but find it so hard trying to keep up with them all and remain interested (I won't stick around for any bs or drama mamas). I do work all week with only the weekends off and have three children and I'm married so most of my time is already spoken for and let's not forget that I have taken on a therapeutic hobby, blogging! Also, I love to try to read all the blogs I currently follow and find more interesting ones as I go along.

I guess what I am trying to figure out is really how do some of these other magnificent mothers are able to find the time and energy to efficiently belong to so many mommy networking groups?

As I join I am trying to weed through attempting to find what is right for me. So far I can tell you that I really like Mom Bloggers Club and Twitter is fun. I have dropped a few other Mom Network Groups recently but I will not mention the names because they just weren't right for me so I won't taint anyone else's opinion it's just not what I do.

Si-Lees (Silly Lees)!

2009-07-17T17:54:00.000-04:00

It's not unusual in the Lee home to act silly.

I thought I'd share a few of them.

We are a bunch of Si-Lees!

Give me the remote control or the baby gets it!

Watch out Michael Phelps!

I'm a Potty Animal!!!

Help! Help! - Groundhog Day All Over Again!

2009-07-16T07:45:00.000-04:00

You ever just feel like everyday is the same old b.s.? Of course you have felt that way I think all of us have. But I swear that lately just seems like the longest repeated days of my life.

Remember that movie, "Groundhog Day" with Bill Murray? That poor guy, I felt so bad for him even though it was a funny movie but what torture to relive the same freakin' day over and over. It's CRAZY!

I can't even remember what day it is anymore since they all seem to be rolling into one. I know exactly what is causing me to feel this way. It's because my feelings about my work environment have changed dramatically recently, with three kids I'm usually on their schedule and finally I just feel like I'm stuck in neutral in life.

I have to make some major changes soon, y'all! Momma Michie is too strong to snap and loose control! lol God is trying to tell me something...wake up girl!

I was speaking with my mother, who lives in New England about 1000 miles away from us, and we discussed how we both are wasting our natural talents. She and I are both very creative and crafty so we may be soon embarking on our own business soon.

I will keep blogging on my adventure of entrepreneurship as it blossoms (hopefully).

God Bless!

Stop Complaining...You're Blessed

2009-07-14T07:59:00.000-04:00

On a daily basis I am hear people complain about what is going wrong in their lives or the world and/or what they don't have. Needless to say that the negativity vibes from these people are so annoying and bring upon themselves and others unnecessary stress.

Honestly, I feel badly for these "miserable" people sometimes because they are so blind to the fact of what God has blessed them with because they are too busy complaining about what they find to be wrong.

I know what I am saying is nothing new to you. I just had to get it off my chest since lately it seems that there has been more and more negative people coming out of the cracks.

I will tell you that in no way am I perfect, I have done my share of complaining about something petty but I am always sure to remind myself of all the good I have in my life. I am a strong believer in God's plan and even though I may not always understand things in life I keep faith that it is all a part of the "plan".

I am going to continue to pray for all the negative, stomping around, complainers in the world.

Thanks for letting me vent a little! Have a great day! : )

Whites Only Pool in Philadelphia!

2009-07-11T08:46:00.000-04:00

I receive periodic emails from the Color of Change Organization for Democracy. I was in shock when I read the most recent one regarding the Valley Club of Philadelphia have a "Whites Only" policy for their facility!

Sixty five inner city children from a local summer camp were discriminated from utilizing the pool after making prior arrangements with the club due to their race! Can you imagine how these children felt? It's 2009 and we are still having to fight for Civil Rights in this country, what's wrong with that picture? A lot!

We need to speak up whenever these occurrences take place. Hello people, we have a Black President in Office (((applauding))). We have come a long way but we still have a ways to go.

The Color of Change Organization has a letter going to the Department of Justice as well as to the Valley Swim Club that we can sign with additional comments. Act today and spread the word that we will NOT stand for any discrimination in this country we call home.

Click here to speak your voice!

Freedom is NOT Free

2009-07-04T08:35:00.000-04:00

In Loving Memory of

Raymond H. McCarthy

Oct. 11, 1930 - Dec. 22, 1982

I would like to thank all of the brave soldiers from the past, present as well as the future for all the unbelievable hard work done to protect our country and assisting other countries.

Without you we would not be free. God bless you and your loved ones always.

Our soldiers are True Heroes.

Have a safe and Happy 4th of July everyone.

Drive-Thru Drama

2009-07-03T07:47:00.000-04:00

There has to be a rule somewhere in place that says, "Those with multiple orders please place them inside". Right? I worked a drive-thru when I was a teenager and I know that we told the customers to come inside with that mess.

Two days in a freakin' row I was stuck behind an idiot with crazy orders. First bad experience was at the bank. I was behind this older woman in a pick up truck who decided she wanted to back up almost hitting my van, then the crazy ass woman had the nerve to look at me like I'm the one who drove her past the tube shoot. That was only the beginning people, I was blocked in behind her and I must of seen that tube go up at least 7 times in 10 damn minutes. I wanted to get out the van and just slap her.

My second drama was yesterday at a fast food drive-thru. The car in front of me was screaming their orders at the speaker and being rude with the girl. Then when they get to the window they had about 10 small bags handed to them. Of course it is my luck that this person would hand just about all the bags back with an obvious complaint being made. So needless to say I wasted much time with a growling belly and a headache forming. I also wanted to slap this person.

My whole point is, you know you're a pain in the ass keep out of the drive-thru and take your drama inside. The drive-thru wasn't just meant for lazy people but for those who have place to be and need to get things accomplished just a little quicker than usual.

Thank you, have a nice day! lol

Oh and of course...God Bless Ya!

Junkie Juice - My Caffeine Addiction

2009-07-02T07:56:00.000-04:00

Alright, alright, I will admit it to you....I have a serious coffee problem. The very first thing I do in the morning is push that wonderful, magical button and wait with my toe tapping for just enough to brew for my first cup. Then of course once I have it I sit at my computer desk and see what's going on in the world while the rest of the junkie juice brews.

My whole family knows not to talk to me or expect any breakfast until I've at least had that first cup down. I guess that's why I wake up two hours ahead of them just to make sure no one gets hurt. I know that this sounds so sad but it's so true, I am not a pleasant person until the caffeine kicks in...then I'm sweet as pie, lol. (Maybe)

I was going to post a picture that was taken of me in front of the coffee maker with my unsipped first cup of coffee but I will spare you all the horror! The look in my eyes says it all...Move or I will kill you! You want to see it? No, no, no...it's not a pretty sight. Well, since you all are so curious here ya go, I warned you!

I promise you I don't always look so evil, they were trying to come between me and my coffee, that's my motive.

I know I am not the only woman in the world that loves her junkie juice in the morning. Oh yeah, and maybe a couple of donuts to go with it, lol.

Well, I've had my three cups to start the day off!

God Bless!

A Poem for Josh

2009-06-27T13:48:00.000-04:00

Beyond Tomorrow

Memories of a girl that was unsure,
Not knowing if there was possibility of a cure
That could soothe the damage done,
Then along came her son.

Just when she was loosing faith in herself,
Compromising her own health.
She was blessed with a true gift
Life had just switched it’s shift.

Each day growing stronger,
Never accepting less any longer.
Cherishing each moment watching you grow,
My love for you goes beyond tomorrow.

Remembering Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett

2009-06-26T10:12:00.001-04:00

I woke up this morning hoping it was all a bad dream but as soon as I turned the computer on I was reminded it was very real. Two extremely talented and loved superstars gone in a blink of an eye.

We all were aware that Farrah Fawcett was battling cancer but it was still surreal that she has passed away. May she rest peacefully and my deepest condolences to all of those who love her dearly.

I will say that Michael Jackson's passing really took a toll on me because it was so unexpected and heck he was Michael Jackson, The King of Pop. So many of us grew up wearing a sparkly glove (on one hand of course), just about all of us had a M.J. jacket (I know I did) and then posters were all over our rooms. His music was so inspiring and invigorating along with his original dance moves that we all tried to copy.

I pray that Michael's family, friends and all of his fans across the world mourn peacefully. May he rest in peace.

Do you remember when you fell in love with Michael Jackson? Check out the video below, my favorite video/song of his.

I am hoping that the unfortunate passings remind you of how blessed you are and realize that each day is a gift, live it like it is your last and be grateful more often than not.

God Bless Us All.

A Watkins Kitty

2009-06-24T17:25:00.001-04:00

I am an Independent Watkins Associate and received a shipment recently of some of the best natural products available. As you can see not only do I and my customers love Watkins but our kitty, Asia, also loves them! I love the cute little paws on her!

Check out my Watkins site to find great, all natural, healthy products such as:

Fragrance Free Liquid Laundry Detergent

Clean Your Home With All Natural Plant Based Products

Aloe Vera Moisturizing Sunblock SPF 30

All Natural Pain Relievers (Since 1868)

Natural/Organic Gourmet

Everyone I know has atleast one favorite product that they swear by. Watkins has been around since 1868 and still going strong!

God Bless

Happy Father's Day!

2009-06-21T08:43:00.001-04:00

Happy Father's Day to all the dads that put their children first.

You are appreciated more than we usually say.

Thank you!

We love you, Dad!

Parental Control

2009-06-15T21:18:00.000-04:00

I had a discussion with my sister today about "Parental Control". Now, my sister does not have children of her own but she is the best aunt my children can have.

My sister and brother-in-law are friends with a couple that has two small boys (4 yrs old & under 1) and the 4 year old is out of control! I have witnessed the child acting up anytime I've been around him. Part of the problem is the parents have no control over him what so ever. He is allowed to play....hold on to your seats people....GRAND THEFT AUTO! Seriously! I have a twelve year old son that is taller than I am and is not even allowed to watch anyone else play this game or any other that may be similar.

This four year old boy will be entering kindergarten in the fall and I don't think he is capable of spelling his name just yet. This is really disturbing to me, yes, okay the parents are both young but there is no excuse for allowing your child to watch violent movies or play violent games. Then when he is acting out, jumping on furniture at other people's homes, hitting other children etc. they yell at him to stop. Ummmm, WHAT? This is all the kid sees, put on some Sesame Street let the kids learn something for God sake other than how to steal a car.

Get ready society, by the time this kid becomes an adult he will probably have a long rap sheet. This makes me sad but it's true. Oh and for those of you who are wondering, Children Services have already investigated the parenting skills previously and nothing has come out of it, yet anyway.

I just thought I'd share, I'm pretty bothered by this. Thanks for reading : )

God Bless.

Practice What You Preach

2009-06-07T12:59:00.000-04:00

Parenting is a challenging journey that is also very rewarding. All children learn by what they see and hear not necessarily by what they are told to do. Practice what you are preaching to your children and you may see better results.

Sure there are plenty of books that pertain to the parenting subject but each child is born with their own destiny and personality. Some parents are old school and will "knock their kids into next week" when they act up. If you are whooping the kids and then telling them to keep their hands to themselves and not physically fight with siblings or friends then you are contradicting yourself (just my opinion).

Example: Little Susan hit her sister because they were fighting over a toy, here comes mom or dad and gives Susan a slap and tells her that hitting is bad. HUH? She's thinking but didn't you just hit me? Why is that ok?

Now for all of the people who are reading this and saying, "I was whooped and turned out ok" or "No one can tell me not to hit my kids, they won't be getting out of control with me". As a child growing up in the 70's, when I got in trouble (was more often than not) I got whooped. Although I respected my mother's parenting, I became immune to it.

Alright, let me choose a less controversial example, lol. Your teenage son is sitting outside of a friend's house and you just so happen to drive by when you notice he's smoking a cigarette! OH NO HE DIDN'T!! Yup, he sure did! The kid is thinking, mom or dad how can you preach to me that smoking is so wrong when you smoke two packs a day, in the house and car when I'm sitting right next to you? The thing that hits his mind is well I'm sucking in all that second hand smoke anyway so who cares if I smoke two or three Newports.

My whole point is that you have to show them not just tell them. Practice what you preach and the results will come with more ease.

Just something that I was pondering.

God Bless!

Whining Wednesday

2009-06-03T08:16:00.000-04:00

It seems that my four year old, Kiara, has developed the talent of persistent whining. Needless to say it is driving me crazy!

Regardless of the situation, happy or sad, she's whining. I have done some Googling trying to see what other parents did to save their hearing and sanity but no luck yet. Some sites said to ignore the child, imitate them and another said to put them in time out. Well, I've tried it and she's immune, lol.

I am hoping and praying that this is just a phase and will soon pass. She is the middle child and I'm sure that can be hard at times.

Welcome to Momma Michie's Blog!

2009-06-01T17:47:00.000-04:00

Welcome to Momma Michie's Blog!

Allow me to introduce myself, my name is Michelle but anyone who knows me well calls me Michie. I am the proud mommy to three wonderful children, two kitties and a husband.

I am known mostly to be honest, caring and a profectionist. I have been told many times that I should write a book, have my won sitcom and/or do stand up! Well at the moment I think I'm going to stick to the blogging scene for a while.

My topics will be random depending on what in the world I have on my busy mind at the moment! God only knows what you might find on here tomorrow!

I hope you all are ready me because here I am! : ) LOL